I realized a few years back that I suffer a little bit of seasonal affective disorder. Every year it sneaks up on me and surprises me. So a couple of weeks ago I realized it and decided to do something. Usually when I realize I do make a change. Push myself to get active. This year I decided I needed to be with my heart and that precipitated the trip to Indiana.
When I came in the summer we did extra stuff. We went to the zoo and we did the county fair. When I came in October we celebrated the little woman's birthday and had Halloween. When I came in November we celebrated the little man's birthday and a second Thanksgiving. The last time was Christmas and all the fun that entails.
This time we did not have anything really planned as a family. David and Cassie have been out a couple of times sans children. I babysat.
We are just living an ordinary life. Cooking, cleaning, kids to karate and school, shopping and visiting. Nothing special. Just life. And it feels like home. I have not disrupted the routine. I have added to it by being helpful. And it has allowed a wee break for the parents of four. Cassie has taken kids to school without having to worry about getting the youngest ready to go. And she has gotten to go to the gym in the morning a couple of days instead of the afternoon.