I just finished up my second back-to-back trip to Indiana. As I'm driving along, I am remembering all the trips before. Prior to 2000 all trips through Idaho meant a stop in Coeur d'Alene to see my uncle Ernest. His house is still there, but the property around it has been turned into a housing development.
Seems I always spend my first night in Billings. I don't have a reason other than it is on the way and seems like a good stop. One of my friends asked me what is in Billings. My answer was I don't really know. I get off the freeway, spend the night in a hotel and get back on the freeway in the morning. But in my memory banks is the fact that my dad lived there for a while back in the day and we spent a little time there on a visit.
I tend to use the same gas stations, hotels and fast-food places. One gas stop is always in Miles City. Mom lived there for a year in the early 90's.
I pass a lot of memory producing places. The oil wells take me back to when there were a lot more of them you could see from the highway. The big cow on the hill stands out, and now there is a chicken I sometimes spot. I almost always swing through Painted Canyon looking for the bison. Most of the time I do not spot them (like neither trip this summer) but I am so happy when I do. Just pure joy. Fargo has a memory pull that I can't quite get. Something to do with visiting friends of my dad's. Minnesota is all things family. I swing by Wayne and Helga's when I go through Illinois. Now I just see Helga and count myself blessed.
The best nostalgic memory though is all the Fallen Rocks sign. When I was very young and we made the trek from MN to Idaho Grandpa always said, "that Indian gets around" and we always asked what Indian. He would proclaim Fallen Rocks. Fallen Rocks could very well be an Indian name.
So, when people ask me about the long drive and how I do it, I just say I do. Terri and I had a conversation a few years ago when we met for lunch (another nostalgia thing as we can't do that anymore) about driving long and hard. We both are children of long-haul truck drivers, and it seems to be part of our make-up. For me it is like taking a trip back in time and remembering all that came before on those trips. Trips with grandparents, parents, husband, self and grandchildren. This trip was no different. And now I have grandchildren saying hey I remember that from last time or a couple of trips ago.